Ideal Mate
Essay by Nicolas • January 19, 2012 • Essay • 501 Words (3 Pages) • 6,007 Views
Over the course of my life I have dated and experience being in love, which has brought me to a point in my life to determine my likes and dislikes in a mate. I have learned that dating helped me to know exactly what I do not want in a mate but I know that no one is perfect so you have to decide what you are going accept. Some characteristics out way the others so which flaws are you willing to deal with as an individual. Everyone has their own feelings of their ideal mate so when you meet that one person you will know I presume. There has to be a common ground.
I could come up with a long qualities and attributes that I would like for my ideal mate to possess. First of all, I want him to be considerate, kind-hearted, gentle, loyal, passionate, sincere, loving, educated, well-rounded, speak proper English, treat me like a queen, ambitious and take care of my feelings. He would have to have a good sense of humor and great personality. He should have good morals and values and not a heavy drinker but a social drink is fine and a non-smoker. Someone that is mature enough to leave the past in the past and does not affiliate themselves with people that is not moving forward. He surrounds himself with positive energy.
My ideal mate will be tall, dark, attractive in his appearance, confident mentally and physically. He will stand out in a crowded room and make my heart skip a beat when he was in my presence or I heard his voice over the phone. I will look forward to seeing him and I could just watch him for hours without him knowing. He will enhance me and we could grow together as a whole. When he touched me I will get chills down my back. He will be strong when I am weak and sensitive but not taking away from his manhood. The strength in his embrace will comfort me and keep me from harm. I would love every inch of him unconditionally.
My ideal mate will be a wonderful husband and father. He should be able to openly communicate his thoughts and feelings and share everything that is important to him with me. I would like for our relationship to be the kind of loving, trusting relationship that everyone wants to have. He and I will share many common interests and work to achieve the same goals in life together. We will have such a strong bond that nothing will ever be able to tear us apart.
Finally, what is most important to me is that my ideal mate will be a man who loves me for who I am completely and unconditionally. I will also love him with all of my heart and be completely devoted to him. He and I will share a lifetime of happiness together
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