Which Love Style Is Rfs?
Essay by Marry • February 17, 2012 • Essay • 425 Words (2 Pages) • 2,033 Views
Which love style is RFS?
I totally believe RFS love style is Agape. I stand to take my position and argue his letter amplify the descriptions of a forgiving lover, and all agape belief regarding romantic love. In this letter Robert clearly show that love is never ending, love is non-judgmental and it is from the heart, not just in words. I believe it is true love; he shows unconditional love throughout the delivering of his letter. According to the letter, Robert write "dearest that you know I cherish no sentimental rubbish about re marriage -- when the right man comes to help you in life you ought to be your happy self again." This clearly shows that Robert has acknowledged the fact that he will know longer be with his wife and consistently act in the very best interests in her future without him. To me this action along show signs of unselfishness and other agape beliefs. I believe that love is an uncertain thing and we as humans will never be able to comprehend love in our very own form. I believe we can still express our love for one another in a way that relates closely to agape love. After reading the letter, I would argue that Robert letter was meant to give his wife a clear conscious and continue life without him. I believe sometime we as people or individuals are looking for someone to walk through this life with us because we do not want to go through the tasks or obstacles of life by ourselves. I think we try and find our soul mate, but most of the time individuals cannot find the love they are truly looking for so they settle for less and end up with the wrong kind of love. Robert tells her repeatedly to be happy, live on, and do things that are going to make her and the kids happy. I would say this could almost be like a last wish thing for him. I would say after reading this letter Robert symbolize the agape love type because his love for his wife was more than just affection or sentiment, it was unselfish love. I would argue in this letter Robert was telling his wife do not let the disappointments and pain destroy their love for each other and the children's. I believe Robert was writing to his wife to explain all the circumstance and things that he was experiencing has allowed him to keep her and the children first.
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