Relationship Dynamics
Essay by sherrie21 • November 15, 2012 • Essay • 862 Words (4 Pages) • 1,270 Views
Relationship Dynamics
I think that there are many online dating advantage. One advantage for people that are dating online is for a person that is uncomfortable about meeting people in public places, or who are new to an area.So in essence there is safety in meeting new people. Most dating sites offer and use many tools that allow for the safety of being anonymous, the avoidance of unwanted contact, and do-it-yourself screening. There are may dating sites that track complaints, monitors their member's behavior, and deals promptly with offenders that are reported. With online relationships you can meet people without fear of commitment, or being turned down based on many things that you look for in a relationship. Many dating sites have "flirting functionality" that lets its users to make advances with little conversation and with this feature people can avoid unnecessary awkwardness, and fear of rejection. Like the text talked about the reciprocity of liking this feature of a "flirting function" helps the person who sends out the first sign know that there feeling of wanting to get to know the person better is equal. Whether you are on the giving or receiving end, rejection is much less messy, hurtful, or embarrassing when its online.
With online relationships its is easy to make sure that the other party your looking for have the qualities that you want. For example you may be looking at things like similarities, proximity, physical attractiveness, personality, socioeconomic status, or education status. The following are a few examples of why online dating has its advantages. When your looking for a person to start a relationship with you may be more into a persons physical attractiveness. So most dating sites allow and encourage it's user to put a photo, and some even have audio capability so you can listen to your potential soul mate's voice, before you even have first contact.Some people may focus on people with similarities. They may include things like similar interests, beliefs, age and other important criteria. With online relationships you can easily weed out the Non-matching people, and they can be bypassed without ever needing to make contact. May dating sites have sorting functions, profiles, search engines, prescreening, and even personality tests that help to deliver quantity, quality, and especially organization to your quest for the potentially perfect relationship.
I think the rules are generally the same when it comes to breaking up face to face or online. There are many ways that a person can go about breaking up with someone it depends on the relationship its self, but the major differences are the following. In the text it pointed out that there are five ways to break up with a person and they are justification, positive tone, negative identity, justification, and de-escalation.
The technique justification when used
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