Parenthood Case

It is a rewarding feeling when you first hear the words "mama" or "dada". Your whole world starts to shift when taking on this new found responsibility of raising minor children. Today, many parents work long hours just to support a family and raise their kids without actually having to raise their kids. What I mean is that parenting takes more than providing for the physical needs of your child. In all actuality, you have to psychically be there, committing to the development wellbeing of your children. We all want what is best for our children and so that they can reach heights that we have never attained ourselves. And although this shift can be challenging or even daunting at first, with time, patience and good information you can become an excellent parent.

Think of a time when you were younger, what did it mean to hear your parents say "I love you" or "I'm proud of you"? Even unexpected compliments from stranger can make your day. So, why not do the same for your kids? Kids and even teenagers just want to hear encouraging word from their parents. The bond between parent and child is one of the strongest connections in nature. So image the advantage this can have. I make me feel lucky or even blessed when my dad told me "I'm proud of you" or when my mother used to tell me how smart I was as a girl. I felt loved and I never wanted to disappoint them. As a parent it is important to make a conscious effort to identify and compliment your kids' good qualities. Compliments go a long way in giving children the boost they need especially from their parents. It is absolutely painful when your parents don't appreciate or even notice you.

For many busy parents, it can be a stretch finding time to spend with your kids. Though work is quite important so is the wellbeing of your kids. There are more ways than one to accomplish a relationship with your children. As a parent, it is very important to establish an emotional connection with your child, and attempting to do so may seem challenging. Often parents forget this and think that putting a roof over your head, food on the table and clothes on your back is enough. Don't come home from work and think your job is done. It is easy to find excuses that your "too busy" to spend time with your kids. You are the parent, so even If you can't find the time, make the time. No matter how busy you are, or how tired you may be, remember that thirty minutes of the day is all you need to put a smile on your kids face. Emotional and spiritual relationships don't just happen. These needs are just as important as cognitive and physical needs.

It can be more of a challenge to communicate with your children. Successful parenting starts with communication and is the key to any good relationship. Negative communication can have damaging effects on your kids or teenagers. Has it ever appeared to you that