Nature Vs. Nurture in Here

Some people think the intelligence is from nature, some people think the intelligence is from nurture. In China there are words that are "human nature is kind at the beginning of human being's lives." I think the environment and experience where people live are most important than other factors. Only through eating education between China and American, people can find the difference between Chinese children and American children.

Chinese attach importance to eat. The old saying in China is "people regard food as their prime want; food is the necessity of human." Chinese parents love their children, especially on meal. First, they just want their children eat more, and the kids eat more their parents will be more glad, but the parents don't care about whether or not their children like it, and the children have been full. The parents coax their children to eat more. Moreover, when children don't want eat and go to play, their grandparents try to reach behind the children for feeding them.

American parents concerned with their children eating too, but they are not as good as Chinese parents. I have never seen American parents always feed their children. They let their children eating by themselves, and do not care about their clothes are going to be dirty. American parents do not force their children for eating. They know vegetables are good for their children's healthy. They ask for their kids to eating, but if their kids insist not to eat, they will not force them again. They do not very care about whether or not their kids are full. I have never seen American family that when their children are full, the parents coax their children eating more. The kids just put the silver then left the dining table.

American parents' attitudes and way of their kids eating reflect a core objective of children education in the United States. That is, the parents train their children ability of independent thinking. The kids can decide which food they like and do not like, or make sure they are hungry or full. Because the kid is fond of play, he or she misses time for eating. He or she will bear the consequences by themselves that he or she will be hungry. That is themselves choice. When the kids really fell unwell with hungry, they will do not repeat doing that. American likes to say that making mistakes is an essential process when the kids grow up. The basis of this concept is that American parents think that they are equal between the parents and their children. They respect their kids' thinking, Even though the thinking is insignificant. American parents think that their children's lives belong to themselves, and they can control their live by themselves. No matter now or the future. Therefore, American parents train their children capacity for independent living from early age.

Therefore, the children do not want eating vegetable; they can do not eat it. When children say