International Love - a Fairytale or Real?

International Love...A fairytale or real?

For several years now women and men have decided to look for true love outside their own vicinity; we are so eager to find our soul-mate that we are willing to go beyond our limits to find it. International love is a hot topic today; many couples are meeting through different technological channels in order to find and build a solid relationship with the opposite sex. However, with this new exciting dating game, many questions are being analyzed:

1. Is it based on real feelings?

2. Is it a scam to get legal status in America?

3. Can two people really trust each other being so far away?

4. Is it true love? Or is it just a game?

5. Is it a distraction for feeling bored or lonely?

6. Is this type of dating used to play with people's emotions?

7. Can it be true that your soul mate can be in another part of the world?

8. Is it possible that God has something to do with it?

9. How do I know I am being played?

10. Does it really lead to marriage or deception?

These are just a few questions that have arisen to my mind. You might ask why are you so doubtful of this type of love. I will tell you that I have witnessed and have personally experienced how foreign men have used and lied to so many women just to have a legal status in America; I have witnessed how these men laugh and joke among other friends on how they are scamming women; I have seen how these men use the word of God as a way to manipulate their scheme to their advantage; I have known of women being so broken-hearted they no longer trust anyone; I have seen how these men take true love for granted...

I am not trying to discourage anyone from seeking love and trying to find their happiness around the world; I am simply stating my opinion based on what I have seen and experienced. I can say this...I thank God for saving me from this type of deception. I encourage people to continue believing in true love, interracial relationships (marriage) but just like me, get to know the person and always leave it to God to show you if this man is being real or not. Believe me in time, you will know if someone is lying to you. Lastly, let me advice you to take your time and don't rush to marriage, this is the only way you can study the situation clearly. But you know what...you don't have to listen to me. After all everything in life is a risk and/or a chance, so how will you know if you don't try...remember every decision has its own consequences,