Divorce Case
Essay by Woxman • December 13, 2011 • Essay • 934 Words (4 Pages) • 1,526 Views
Does divorce is a solution for a couple who is having some misunderstanding in their life as "man and wife"? The word divorce has become such a big, new aspect all around the world. This issue has changed the idea of being married "until death", and in Nicaraguans' lives have had an impact too. The average of divorces 10 years ago in Nicaragua wasn't that common as it is nowadays. Actually, ten years ago 2 out of ten couples used to get divorced, nevertheless, now 5 out of ten couples get divorced in Nicaragua. This might be because most of them are not based on true love, or another reason can be based on the teenagers' marriages, or because the couple is getting married based on a wrong definition of marriage. The truth issue with divorce is that, it is not a real solution, indeed it is the beginning for more problems.
Getting married without being in love with the other person is not healthy. Once the couple begins realizing about how the man or wife is, and they don't like the little details in each other is when problems begin, and things won't ever be the same. Second, when they both are not in real love, anything can be stand from each other, they will find problems even when there is not any, and they will focus on little defects instead of more reasonable good aspects they actually have. Third is definitively not healthy for the marriage, because it won't be funded on a real feeling of comprehension and trust, if the marriage doesn't have this as a main support in their lives nothing good is going to be the final result and finally they will start paying lawyers and spending money on divorce papers and children won't like the idea of their parents getting divorced.
On another hand, there is the group of people that because of their age and lack of knowledge they act without thinking in future consequences. I'm referring to teenagers, in many of the divorces young people is involved. The reason is because maybe they decided to bring a child when they were between the ages of 15 to 18, and as a result of this their parents decided for them and the "best and fast solution" is they to get married. No one has at least met somebody who had had to get married because they did a stupid thing in their lives and now there is not any other solution. Obviously they get married without real love, or at least will; as a result when they are old enough for getting divorced, they do it without any doubt. Now the issue is that as they got married because they were expecting for a baby, now that they are getting divorce the baby is the one who is going to suffer, anyway, they didn't love each other.
As adults know, teenagers are not suppose to have a baby, they can still be playing, or in some cases getting prepared for the future; studying and doing more convenient formations for their future.
The third issue in this is couples who gets
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